Considering Your First CPL Event?
If This Is Your First Time, Start Here.
Be patient with yourself……follow your instincts and go at a pace you are comfortable with.
Remove the Element of Surprise
Knowing what to expect ahead of time can make it easier to decide how — or whether — you’d like to participate.
Watch a short video to see how moderators guide conversations and support participants.
Read the topic description in advance, along with any optional pre-reads, so you know what the conversation will focus on.
Make Sure You Know What to Expect
Conversations across differences can take many forms. CPL conversations are designed to feel calmer, more human, and more supportive.
It’s a conversation, not a debate. There’s no winning or persuading — the focus is listening and understanding.
A moderator is always present to guide the conversation and help things stay respectful.
A few simple ground rules help everyone feel safe and heard.
You can participate at your own pace. Listening quietly is always an option.
No one is trying to change your mind.
Many people leave with a new perspective — or simply the relief of knowing conversations like this are still possible.
Check in With Yourself
Talking across differences isn’t for everyone — and that’s okay. Taking a moment to check in with yourself can help you decide what feels right for you.
Why some people find this worth doing:
They gain insight into how others see the world
Relationships often feel stronger, even without agreement
Conversations can spark new ideas and solutions
Many people feel more connected and less isolated
A few things to keep in mind:
It can take energy and feel uncomfortable at times
Missteps happen, and moderators help address them
Everyone comes with different communication skills
Trust and ease build gradually, not all at once
You don’t have to decide anything immediately. Paying attention to how you’re feeling — and honoring that — is part of the process.
Take our short Conversation Navigator quiz
Check out an event. They’re free.
